Tact…a word much “forgotten”
Wednesday, January 31st, 2007As Christians, can we even define the word “tact”, much less practice it? As I’ve mentioned I am studying Daniel through the Beth Moore study and last night I spent a lot of time on the verse where Daniel approached Arioch, the commander of the king’s guard, with wisdom and tact (Daniel 2:14). As Christians, it is our responsibility to uphold that name, “Christian”, with much regard.
How many times do we get frustrated with the clueless cashier in Wal-Mart, the waitress who’s more interested in “fellowshiping” than she is with refilling your tea, the driver who pulls out in front of you only to proceed to slow to 10-15 mph under the speed limit, the customer service rep on the other end of the phone who speaks any language but your own, you get the idea! I am preaching to myself here! We are representing Christ. We should have more patience, more tact, more wisdom, more understanding, more love for these individuals than anyone. But instead, quite often we “Christians” have less tolerance than the chiefest of sinners who has never even met Christ. Ouch!
Practice tact today. Here’s the definition, in case you, like me have not used it in so long you forgot what it means! Tact: a keen sense of what to do or say in order to maintain good relations with others or avoid offense. That’s straight from Webster himself!
Just last week I was in a local sandwich shop, of course in a hurry, is there any other pace? How many times did I have to tell that poor little clueless obviously first-day-on-the-job girl that I did not want quacamole (see, I can’t even spell it! Why would I eat it?) on my Cabo Chicken sandwich? I inhaled deeply and just before sighing loudly in frustration, the cashier that was also waiting on the poor child to get my sandwich right, says to me “Your hair is beautiful. I love the color and the cut.” … …. ….
The best I could tell she was checking me out pretty good. I was immediately reminded by the whisper of the Holy Spirit that I am representing not only Hannah’s Hope Ministries wherever I am, whatever I’m doing, but Christ - which is Hannah’s Hope! This young lady had been staring at me and probably wondering what my reaction to the guacamole queen was going to be. I quickly rebounded from my frustrations and took the time to smile at the cashier and carry on a conversation with her about my hair and what color the hi-lites are. She wasn’t going to buy a story that this is my natural color, considering the three different tones. So I didn’t even go there! Then the guacamole child walked over and handed me my sandwich and apologized for the delay. I smiled and told her it was no problem, thanked both of them, told them to have a great day and left there thanking God that I had not embarrassed His Son with a tactless response to this young lady in training.
Well, there you go. Another challenge for you. Be sensitive of what to do or say in order to maintain good relations with others or avoid offense.
Colossians 4:6 “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”
Aunt Hope